This was a rich list of eye-opening resources and since it was mentioned in more than one of the resources I looked more into the social vs. medical model of disability which I had not heard as a concept before.
Putting responsibility solely on the disabled person feeds into the same debate of blaming a woman for being raped because she wore certain types of clothes / was drunk / etc rather than looking at how society is structured to enable rape and exclusion. There is so much more work to be done and I hope that the medical model will loose traction.
I love the podcast “the Guilty Feminist” (https://guiltyfeminist.com) which provides a platform for a wide range of disabled people and other marginalised groups. It has made me very aware of subtleties of disabilities and helped me recognise my many privileges.